Nigerian stand-up comedian Helen Paul Bamisile, popularly know as Tatafo, has disclosed how she made the first move on her husband.
The couple have been happily married for 5 year and blessed with 3 children.
The comedian toldThe Sunhow she met her husband:
“I met him through my boss where I was formerly working. He was a friend to my boss. While he always saw me as too playful and jumpy, I saw him as too stingy,”she said while laughing.
The reason why she thought her husband was stingy was whenever he went to her office he never bothered to buy anything for her and her co-workers unlike her boss’ other friends who were always generous.
“Those days when my boss’ colleagues came visiting, they always reached out to us when leaving. They gave us money which we used to buy doughnuts and soft drinks but my husband never gave us anything. He would just wave his hand and say ‘bye bye guys, take care of yourselves’,”she says, mimicking a stern and unfriendly male voice, adding,“So we always saw him as a selfish lawyer.”
Nevertheless, Tatafo and her colleagues one day, summoned all the courage they could and decided to confront him.
“On that fateful day, I summoned courage and as he was leaving, I told him, ‘sir, you don’t buy us anything any time you come but we really like you. If you can be buying us doughnuts and soft drinks, we would be very grateful’. He started laughing, so I quickly added, ‘sir, it’s not only me o. My colleagues are also involved, so please don’t tell our boss’.”
Her effort paid off as her destined husband laughed it off after which he reached into his pockets and gave them ‘something’ for lunch.
“We were so happy I asked for his phone number which he gave me. And then I gave his number to my friends and we all started calling to thank him. He realized that we really desired the doughnuts and soft drinks so whenever he came by, he would give us money for doughnuts and soft drinks. He never failed to deliver whenever he showed up and we never stopped thanking him. And then one day, he took a good look at me and said ‘baby, I love you’ and the rest is history.”